April 21, 2016
Building Relational Equity
We live in an individualistic time. Where big front porches have been replaced by sprawling back decks. Where people go years without knowing the neighbors who live next door. Where our only friendships are those we may see during weekend services or grocery store trips.
It’s undeniable that relationships are a valuable asset in our lives. Throughout the Scriptures we see examples of godly community, of many building relationships with those in their city, and the example Jesus set in His life of ministry. Why are relationships so important?
We were made for community
Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness.” – Genesis 1:26
God exists in a perfect, communal relationship within the Trinity. God the Father, Jesus Christ the Son, and the Holy Spirit were all present during creation, and made mankind in His image. Later in Genesis chapter 2 we see that it is “not good” for Adam, the first man, to be alone.
As human beings made in the image of God, we have a unique relational need. Whether it’s marriage, friendships, or family; relationships give us the opportunity to know others and be known ourselves. Often times, much spiritual growth happens in and through the relationships we have with others.
Trust is built over time
And he entered the synagogue and for three months spoke boldly, reasoning and persuading them about the kingdom of God….and this continued for two years, so that all the residents of Asia heard the word of the Lord, both Jews and Greeks. – Acts 19:8,10
Meaningful relationships don’t happen in a day or two. Relationships grow over long periods of time and transparency with one another. The Apostle Paul, throughout his lifetime of ministry, had relationships with many throughout the known world. These people were family, ministry companions, and those he met while traveling and preaching.
One of the key ingredients to lasting, worthwhile relationships is trust. Trust is understanding that we can be completely honest and real with someone and not have to worry. Trust in relationships only grows as we continue to be intentional with growing deeper in the relationships we have with others.
Relationships create opportunities for the Gospel
And as he reclined at table in his house, many tax collectors and sinners were reclining with Jesus and his disciples, for there were many who followed him. – Mark 2:15
Any quick look into the Gospel accounts and you will see Jesus interacting with many different people. Jews, Gentiles, tax collectors, sinners. In these interactions we see a really important truth: Jesus loved people. It didn’t matter who they were or where they were from, Jesus loved by sharing His life with those who wanted to know Him. Jesus’ life and ministry eventually led Him to the cross where He would shed His blood for the sins of many of those He had gotten to know in His time on earth.
Whether it’s in a Life Group, during a weekend service, or in your neighborhood, we should strive to build relational equity with those God has put in our lives. Not only do the relationships bring joy to our lives, they also bring forward opportunities for the Gospel to go out in a meaningful way.
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